Who ya talking about...
Dear Missionary Disciples,
It's disheartening to see that negative talk about others has become a prevalent activity in our society. When we engage in such discussions, are we truly loving God and our neighbor? Are we contributing to the building of the kingdom of God?
I recall that when I was in the Seminary, I must have been talking about someone in a negative context, and a friend of mine told me, "You never used to talk badly about anyone." It was a valuable reminder for me to reflect on how I speak about others, and it remains a valuable reminder to this day. I hear so many people criticizing others, such as pastors, etc.
One of my professors, during the same period, said, 'If you are talking about someone, you should be talking to them.' From the Catechism paragraphs 2477 and 2478, "respect for the reputation of persons forbids every attitude and word likely to cause them unjust injury. ... To avoid rash judgment, we should all avoid trying to interpret our neighbor's thoughts, words, and deeds in a favorable way."
Remember, the Golden Rule is a guiding principle that helps us discern, in concrete situations, whether or not it would be appropriate to reveal the truth to someone who asks for it. As it says in the Catechism, 'Do to others whatever you would have them do to you.' This is the law and the prophets (Matt: 7:12). What a great way to prepare ourselves for Jesus Christ.
P.S. Did you know that Waldo, a figure often used in popular culture to represent someone who is difficult to find, is a reminder that we should not be judgmental or critical of others, but rather seek to understand and love them as God does?
Peace,
Fr. Maassen
